ADHA ZAIN

 

Penulis asal: Abu Hurairah

Sejak akhir-akhir ni, ISTERI KERAP MARAH.

Masuk kereta marah, balik rumah marah, tengah mandi marah, dekat dapur marah, tengah suap makan marah, tengah jalan marah.

Allahu, kadang tak mampu menghadapi isteri yang marah ni. Lihat wajahnya sudahlah ngeri, senyumannya menjadi masam macam susu basi, kata-katanya seperti petir yang menyambar bumi. Hanya rupanya masih lah seorang siti.

Bila dia marah, saya lebih banyak diam. Selawat dan minta Tuhan tolong kuatkan hatinya. Kuatkan jiwanya. Kuatkan segalanya. Saya cuba faham tapi tak boleh tanya kenapa.

Kadang berhari-hari melayani marahnya.

Kadang sejam dua kemudian tambah seminit tiga semula.

Diam dan sabar sahaja, itu kuncinya. Walau demi Allah, tak pernah mudah.

Selesai isteri marah, saya ajak makan. Bagi dia makan apa yang dia suka. Ajak dia pergi Ikea atau mana tempat yang dia suka. Pergi bata beli kasut baru untuknya.

Dalam kereta, saya tanya biasa saja.

"Boleh abang tahu kenapa awak marah-marah? Saya kesian dengan awak. Tapi, saya mampu diam sebab saya tak tahu apa masalah sebenar."

Isteri diam. Dia tundukkan wajahnya.

Isteri terbeban. Ya, apalagi dalam hidup hari ini, suami dan isteri perlu saling memburu untuk kelangsungan hidup, maka itu amat menekan emosi isteri.

Dalam dia sibuk bekerja, sebenarnya dia mahu duduk dirumah. Dia mahu hiburkan suaminya. Dia mahu jaga anak-anaknya. Dia mahu masak yang sedap-sedap untuk orang yang dia sayang. Dia mahu memeluk mesra suami dan anaknya.

Tapi, dia tak boleh. Dia juga kena bekerja. Dia juga kena berusaha.Dia kena mencari rezeki bersama. Dia juga tertekan dengan rakan dan stafnya. Dia juga menhadapi bisnes yang turun dan naik.

Itu membuatkan isteri kita akan jadi marah.

Maka, dia bukan marahkan suaminya. Dia cuma tak tahu nak meletakkan marah itu dimana.

Itu yang kita lihat banyaknya status luahan di KRT atau FB adalah dari wanita yang begini rupa. Mereka marah tanpa mereka sedar.

Maka, apa yang kita boleh buat sebagai suami?

Samada kita suka atau tidak, kita hadapi saja marahnya. Panasnya. Emosinya. Rajuknya. Leternya.

Sebab, hanya suami yang isteri kita ada.

Isteri tidak pandai main futsal untuk hilangkan tensen macam kita. Isteri tak reti download movie dan menontonnya sambil suka-suka. Isteri tak pandai keluar berhibur tanpa anak dan suaminya.

Apabila isteri cuba bicara tentang masalah mereka, pada pandangan pihak suami pula terasa yang mereka diberi tanggungjawab untuk memberi penyelesaian pada masalah tersebut.

Tidak! Tak perlu selesaikan pun.

Disini suami harus faham dimana mereka tidak perlu mencanangkan sebarang penjelasan atau penyelesaian tetapi apa yang perlu dibuat adalah mendengar dan memahami apa yang diluahkan dari hati wanita.

Kerana, apabila isteri mahu meluahkan apa yang dia rasa, itu tanda kita lelaki yang paling dia cinta dan percaya.

Selamat berjuang buat suami yang selalu sabar dengan karenah isteri mereka.

Termasuk saya.

Isteri kita, bukti cinta kita pada Tuhan kita.

 

Individu yang genius sering kali dianggap pelik dan ganjil.

Malah kadang kala mereka juga disisihkan sejak kecil kerana berkelakuan 'kera sumbang' dan enggan bermasyarakat disebabkan sering melakukan perkara yang berada dalam fikiran.

Tapi adakah anda tahu bahawa golongan bijak pandai ini memiliki ciri yang sama dan membentuk persona mereka.

Ciri-ciri anda seorang yang genius:

1. Pemikir yang sangat mendalam

Apa jua aspek pasti difikirkannya sehingga ke akar umbi.
Fikiran mereka sentiasa bergerak dan berputar, malahan mereka juga cenderung untuk memikirkan masalah dengan lebih produktif.

Pada masa sama, mereka juga akan memikirkan perspektif yang berbeza dan kemungkinan hal negatif yang boleh berlaku.

Dengan setiap perspektif, mereka akan memahami masalah dengan lebih baik dan mencari bukan sahaja penyelesaian tetapi juga berinovasi melaluinya.

2. Tidak jemu dengan ilmu pengetahuan

Mereka sentiasa mendambakan pengetahuan dan akan berusaha keras untuk mencuba mahupun menerokai kemungkinan dalam semua perkara yang mereka fikirkan.

Hampir tidak ada hari di mana mereka tidur tanpa mempelajari sesuatu yang baru atau mendalami sesuatu yang mereka fikirkan.

3. Mengaku tidak tahu

Semakin kurang bijak anda semakin anda melebihkan keupayaan mental.

Jika ada, lebih ramai orang yang bijak meremehkan perkara dengan harapan mereka dapat mengetahui lebih lanjut tentang perkara yang mereka tidak tahu.

Golongan seperti ini merasakan mereka lebih produktif untuk mengakui hakikat bahawa mereka tidak tahu sesuatu dan berusaha untuk mengetahuinya.

4. Mereka menikmati dan tidak sabar untuk meluangkan masa dengan diri sendiri

Anda akan mendapati bahawa orang yang bijak suka 'melaburkan' masa dalam fikiran mereka sendiri.
Mereka juga cenderung lebih individualistik daripada orang lain, bukan sahaja menghabiskan terlalu banyak masa dengan orang ramai mengurangkan kepuasan mereka tetapi ia juga memberi mereka lebih sedikit masa untuk introspeksi pada pemikiran sendiri.

Kebanyakan mereka lebih gemar tidak berhubung dengan masyarakat dalam beberapa perkara yang mereka kurang minat dan hanya bercakap apabila rasa perlu.

Dalam erti kata itu, mereka 'tidak benar-benar sesuai' dengan hidup bermasyarakat.

5. Tidak kemas atau tidak teratur

Jika anda sering dituduh meninggalkan meja atau bilik yang tidak kemas, kemungkinan besar anda seorang yang genius!

Berdasarkan satu kajian yang dijalankan, Universiti Minnesota menyimpulkan bahawa jika seseorang itu tidak menghabiskan banyak masa untuk membersih dan mengatur barangannya, ia bermakna fikirannya sibuk dengan hal yang lebih penting.

Para penyelidik mendakwa bahawa ia membawa kepada output kreatif yang lebih baik.

6. Kurang tidur

Jika anda lebih suka berjaga lewat, kemungkinan besar anda tergolong dalam kalangan orang yang lebih pintar daripada segi intelek.

Penyelidikan seperti ini dalam Psychology Today mendedahkan bahawa burung hantu malam dikaitkan dengan tahap IQ yang lebih tinggi berbanding dengan burung hantu pagi.

Fikiran mereka jarang tenang dan sering sukar berehat kerana terlalu memikirkan sesuatu hal.
Orang seperti J.R.R. Tolkien, Pharrell Williams, Mark Zuckerberg, Charles Darwin dan Presiden Obama adalah 'makhluk malam'.

7. Gemar untuk berlengah-lengah

Orang pintar akan menangguhkan tugasan remeh semata-mata mahu melakukan kerja berkaitan perihal diri sendiri.

Dalam erti kata lain, mereka gemar untuk berlengah-lengah kerana merasakan masa itu sebagai sesuatu yang sangat berharga dan diperlukan untuk mengendalikan tugasan yang lebih kreatif.
Sering kali kebanyakan kerja asal mereka datang melalui banyak masa yang dihabiskan untuk berfikir, merenung dan memikirkan apa sahaja yang mereka fikirkan.

Sumber : mSTAR

 

Menghidapi Sindrom Blepharophimosis atau kelopak mata tidak normal bukan penghalang wanita ini berjaya dalam hidup, sebaliknya bangkit penuh bersemangat untuk menjadi usahawan cemerlang.

Usahawan, Nur Syahidah Aimullah Abdul Rahim, 32, berasal dari Ipoh, Perak menghidap sindrom itu sejak lahir dan disahkan akibat genetik berikutan bapanya juga menghidap sindrom yang sama, selain adik perempuannya.

Anak sulung daripada lima beradik itu mengakui masalah dihadapinya itu membuatkannya tidak yakin, merasa rendah diri, malu dan takut untuk berhadapan dengan orang ramai sejak kecil.

Katanya, ini kerana orang ramai akan sentiasa melihat muka terutama pada bahagian kedua-dua matanya dan tertanya-tanya apa yang berlaku kepadanya.

"Sejujurnya sehingga sekarang apabila saya ke mana-mana saya akan sentiasa dipandang orang kerana mereka mungkin merasakan saya 'pelik'.

"Tetapi apabila sudah semakin dewasa saya sudah membiasakan diri dan jika ada yang bertanya, saya akan jawab dengan jujur sindrom dihadapi," katanya.

Nur Syahidah yang sudah berkahwin dan kini menetap di Kulim, Kedah berkata, walaupun tiada kelopak mata sejak kecil, ia bukan penghalang beliau melakukan rutin harian seperti orang lain.

Malah katanya, beliau hanya memakai cermin mata kerana silau.

"Tiada kelopak mata memang ada sedikit kekurangan sebagai contoh orang lain dapat melihat bangunan empat tingkat dari jauh dengan mudah dan jelas, tetapi berbeza dengan saya yang hanya dapat melihat tiga tingkat.

"Tetapi bukan halangan atau membuatkan pergerakan saya terbatas kerana saya masih boleh melakukan rutin sama seperti biasa," katanya.

Ada rawatan kosmetik untuk kelopak mata, tapi beliau merasakan tiada keperluan melakukannya.

Ketika ini, beliau selesa dengan keadaan yang dihidapi sejak kecil, selain menganggap diri istimewa berbanding orang lain.

"Jika pada masa akan datang sindrom ini mengganggu kesihatan saya seperti menyebabkan rabun teruk, saya akan membuat pembedahan yang sewajarnya," katanya.

Beliau yang sebelum ini berniaga kuih secara kecilan di rumah berkata, hidupnya kini berubah 180 darjah selepas menjadi juara pertandingan Resipi Berani Maggi musim kedua, pada Ogos lalu.

Katanya, program itu adalah sebahagian daripada Program Mentor Wanita Cukup Berani yang bertujuan memberi inspirasi kepada lebih ramai wanita untuk keluar daripada zon selesa dan mencuba sesuatu yang baharu.

Selain menerima wang tunai RM8,000, lebih menggembirakannya beliau menerima bimbingan peribadi selama lapan minggu bersama ikon usahawan Anne Idris.

"Kemenangan itu membolehkan saya kini mempunyai produk dengan jenama sendiri iaitu rendang dendeng daging yang juga hidangan pada pusingan akhir pertandingan berkenaan.

"Produk ini hasil bimbingan Anne yang membantu dari segi memfokuskan pada peningkatan perniagaan makanan, mengurus kecekapan kos dan strategi penjenamaan," katanya yang mengeluarkan daging dendeng Syahidah Food sejak dua bulan lalu.

Akuinya, bukan mudah untuk memulakan perniagaan dan pada bulan pertama jualan tidak memberangsangkan.

Namun, selepas menukar pembungkusan produk jualan dua kali ganda.

Katanya, beliau kini menjual rendang menerusi laman e-dagang popular serta laman sosial miliknya dan sering mempromosikan sendiri produknya.

"Saya yakin kekurangan saya ini bukan penghalang pencetus kejayaan pada masa akan datang," katanya.

Sumber Dari Berita Harian

 

Mengaji al-Quran dan solat hajat setiap hari menjadi amalan seorang pelajar cemerlang yang memperoleh keputusan Mumtaz Sofi dalam peperiksaan Sijil Tinggi Agama Malaysia (STAM) 2020.

Pelajar dari Sekolah Maahad Muhammadi Lelaki, Muhammad Amnan Hazimi Che Mat, 19, memperoleh keputusan Mumtaz (cemerlang) bagi 10 mata pelajaran yang diambil.

Katanya, bagi menajamkan fikiran untuk menghafal pelajaran, dia mengamalkan baca al-Quran selepas solat Maghrib setiap hari.

"Bacaan al-Quran ini penting kerana saya perlu tajamkan fikiran memandangkan subjek STAM ini kesemuanya perlu menghafal.

"Jika fikiran tenang, proses menghafal juga akan jadi lebih senang dan mudah mengingati setiap subjek yang dipelajari.

"Selain itu, saya akan fokus dalam sesi Pengajaran dan Pembelajaran di Rumah (PdPR) serta bertanya kepada guru jika tidak memahami," katanya ketika ditemui di rumahnya di Kampung Padang Enggang di Kota Bharu.

Anak ketiga daripada lima beradik itu mengakui terkejut dengan keputusan itu dan bersyukur kerana dapat memberi yang terbaik kepada kedua-dua ibu bapanya.

Katanya, dia menghadiahkan keputusan itu kepada ayahnya, Che Mat Che Daud, 53, dan ibu, Malita Mohd Zain, 49, yang masing-masing bekerja sebagai Penolong Pegawai Tadbir di Hospital Raja Perempuan Zainab II (HRPZ II) dan Juruteknologi Maklumat Kesihatan Awam Perol di Batu Lapan.

"Alhamdulillah atas keputusan ini dan saya bercadang menyambung pelajaran dalam bidang perundangan di Universiti Kebangsaan Malaysia (UKM).

Sementara itu, Che Mat bersyukur atas pengorbanan dan usaha anaknya itu untuk mencapai cita-citanya.

"Sebagai bapa, saya dan isteri sentiasa memberi semangat kepada anak untuk meneruskan usaha, terutama dalam menelaah pelajaran kerana kami tahu belajar di musim pandemik COVID-19 ini sangat mencabar dan perlu kesabaran," katanya.

Sumber dari Berita Harian

 

1.Senyum.

Kebanyakan kita bila berhadapan dengan masalah pasti kita akan tarik muka seribu. Paling tak pun kita akan mengeluh…dan mengomel sorang -sorang yea tak? apa kata bila kita hadapi tekanan seperti ini kita senyum dahulu. Bila kita senyum, pasti sedikit tekanan akan reda..Cubalah..

2.Bersendirian.

Ada sesetengah orang suka bersendirian..memencil diri untuk mencari ketenangan seketika. Macam suri kalu suri ada masalah suri selalu pergi ke pantai..take time disitu sebab kita berhak untuk mendapatkannya. Kita renungkan kembali apa yang berlaku dan ambilah iktibar dari sudut yang positif setiap perkara yang terjadi itu kemudian perbaiki pada keadaan yang lebih baik.

3.Bertenang.

Janganlah berserabutkan lagi keadaan yang sedia ada. Tarik nafas dalam-dalam dan hembuskannya secara perlahan-lahan. Cuba elakkan diri anda dari membuat sebarang keputusan dalam keadaan tertekan. Ini kerana keputusan itu mungkin bersandarkan pada emosi anda semata-mata. Bukan itu sahaja malahan jika tiada perincian yang dibuat dalam keputusan tersebut takut sebarang kemudaratan akan berlaku nanti.

Does your name begin with: A?
You are not particularly romantic, but you are interested in action. You mean business. With you, what you see is what you get. You have no patience for flirting and can't be bothered with someone who is trying to be coy, cute, demure, and subtly enticing. You are an up-front person. You often don't get hints, you never pass any. Brains turn you on. You must feel that your partner is intellectually stimulating; otherwise you will find it di fficult to sustain the relationship. You require loving, cuddling, wining, and dining to know that you're being appreciated. Your mate's physical attractiveness is important for you. You tend to be very practical, not very emotional. Your choices are very good can only lead to trouble. You are very self satisfied & egoistic.

Does your name begin with: B?
You give off vibes of lazy sensuality. You enjoy being romanced, wined, and dined. You are very happy to receive gifts as an statement of the affection of your lover. You want to be pampered and know how to pamper your mate. You are private in your statement of endearments, and particular when it comes to love. You will hold off until everything meets with your approval. You can control your appetite feelings. You require new sensations and experiences. You are willing to experiment.

Does your name begin with: C?
You are a very social individual, and it is important to you to have a relationship. You require closeness and togetherness. You want the object of your affection to be socially acceptable and good-looking. You see your lover as a friend and companion. You are very sensual, needing someone to appreciate and almost worship you. When this cannot be achieved, you have the ability to hold out on affection until you receive this. You are an expert at controlling your desires and doing without.

Does your name begin with: D? Once you get it into your head that you want someone, you move full steam ahead in your suit. You do not give up your quest easily. You are nurturing and caring. If someone has a problem, this turns you on. You are highly passionate, loyal, and intense in your involvement's, sometimes possessive and jealous. You are very sharp, talented often with sense of humor. When people bother to look deep inside they cannot resist what they see. You are stimulated by the eccentric and unusual, having a free and open attitude. You get jealous of other people and lose your temper.

Does your name begin with: E?
Your greatest need is to talk. If your date is not a good listener, you have trouble relating. A person must be intellectually stimulating or you are not interested sexually. You need a friend for a lover and a companion. You hate disharmony and disruption, but you do enjoy a good argument once in a while-it seems to stir things up. You flirt a lot, for the challenge is more important. But once you give your heart away, you are uncompromisingly loyal. You will fall asleep with a good book. Sometimes, in fact, you prefer a good book to a lover.

Does your name begin with: F?
You are idealistic and romantic, putting your lover on a pedestal. You look for the very best mate you can find. You are a flirt, yet once committed, you are very loyal. You are sensuous and privately passionate. Publicly, you can be showy, extravagant, and gallant. You are a born romantic. Dramatic love scenes are a favorite fantasy past time. You can be a very generous lover.

Does your name begin with: G?
You are fastidious, seeking perfection within yourself and your lover. You respond to a lover who is your intellectual equal or superior, and one who can enhance your status. You are sensuous and know how to reach the peak of stimulation, because you work at it meticulously. You can be extremely active-never tiring out. Your duties and responsibilities take precedence over everything else. You may have difficulty getting emotionally close to people.

Does your name begin with: H?
You seek a mate who can enhance your zest for life, fun everything you seek for. You will be very generous to your lover once you have attained a commitment. You are very affectionate very strong. Your gifts are actually an investment in your partner. Before the commitment, though, you tend to be very careful with your every move and equally cautious in your involvements often, as you believe that you have to look out for yourself. You are a sensual and patient lover. You will hold off till everything meets your full approval. You are a perfectionist, hard to satisfy and strong in your beliefs. Not influential, you always stand your ground. People can always count on you to stand by them in a crisis. You are a dreamer with a passion for life.

Does your name begin with: I?
You have a great need to be loved, appreciated... even worshiped. You enjoy luxury, sensuality, and pleasures of the flesh. You like necking spend hours just touching feeling exploring. You look for lovers who know what they are doing. You are not interested in an amateur, unless that amateur wants a tutor. You are fussy and exacting about having your desires satisfied. You are willing to experiment and try new modes of statement. You bore easily and thus require adventure and change. Your commitments don't last very long you often tend to stray. Loyalty is not one of your strong points. You are more sensual than sexual,! but you are sometimes downright lustful.

Does your name begin with: J?
You are blessed with a great deal of physical energy. When used for a good cause there is nothing to stop you, except maybe that they aren't always used for the good. ( you could dance all night.) You respond to the thrill of the chase and the challenge of the mating game. You can carry on great romances in your head. At heart you are a roamer and need to set out on your own every so often. You will carry on long- distance relationships with ease. You are idealistic and need to believe in love. You have a need to be nurtured deep within.

Does your name begin with: K?
You are secretive, self-contained, and shy. You are very sexy, sensual, and passionate, but you do not let on to this. Only in intimate privacy will this part of your nature reveal itself. When it gets down to the nitty-gritty, you are an expert. You know all the little tricks of the trade, can play any role or any game, and take your love life very seriously. You don't fool around. You have the patience to wait for the right person to come along. You are very generous, giving, often selfless. You are kind-natured sweet, which is found to be attractive by many. You are a good friend.

Does your name begin with: L?
You can be very romantic, attached to the glamour of love. Having a partner is of paramount importance to you. You are free in your statement of love and are willing to take chances, try new sexual experiences and partners, provided it's all in good taste. Brains turn you on. You must feel that your partner is intellectually stimulating, otherwise you will find it difficult to sustain the relationship. You require loving, cuddling, wining, and dining to know that you're being appreciated.

Does your name begin with: M
You may appear innocent, unassuming and shy but we know that appearances can lie. When it comes to sex, you are no novice but something of a skilled technician. You can easily go to extremes, though, running the gamut from insatiability to boredom with the whole idea of love. You can be highly critical of your mate, seeking perfection in both of you. It is not easy to find someone who can meet your standards. You have difficulty expressing emotions and drawing close to lovers. You are often selfish, thinking you are always right no matter what. You never give in. Winning is your prime desire- at any cost. You often forget friends and family and you live for the moment.

Does your name begin with: N You are emotional and intense. When involved in a relationship, you throw your entire being into it. Nothing stops you;there are no holds barred. You are all consuming and crave someone who is equally passionate and intense. You believe in total freedom. You are willing to try anything and everything. Your supply of energy is inexhaustible. You want to be pampered and know how to pamper your mate. You also enjoy mothering your mate. You often have the greatest love affairs all by yourself, in your head. You are very imaginative.

Does your name begin with: O?
You are very interested in fun activities yet secretive and shy about your desires. You can re-channel much of your energy into making money and/or seeking we. You can easily have extended periods of celibacy. You are a passionate, compassionate lover, requiring the same qualities from your mate. Love is serious business; thus you demand intensity, diversity and is willing to try anything or anyone. Sometimes your passions turn to possessiveness, which must be kept in check.

Does your name begin with: P?
You are very conscious of social proprieties. You wouldn't think of doing anything that might harm your image or reputation. Appearances count. Therefore, you require a good-looking partner. You also require an intelligent partner. Oddly enough, you may view your partner as your enemy... a good fight stimulates those vibes. You are relatively free of hang-ups. You are willing to experiment and try new ways of doing things. You are very social and sensual; you enjoy flirting and need a good deal of physical gratification.

Does your name begin with: Q?
You require constant activity and stimulation. You have tremendous physical energy. It is not easy for a partner to keep up with you. You are an enthusiastic lover and tend to be attracted to people because of their ethnic groups. You need romance, hearts and flowers, and conversation to turn you on and keep you going.

Does your name begin with: R?
You are a no-nonsense, action-oriented individual. You need someone who can keep pace with you and who is your intellectual equal-the smarter the better. You are turned on more quickly by a great mind than by a great body. However, physical attractiveness is not very important to you. You have to be proved to be worthy for a partner. You have a need to prove yourself the best. You want feedback on your performance. You are open, stimulating romantic.

Does your name begin with: S?
For you, it is pleasure before business. You can be romantically idealistic to a fault and is capable of much sensuality. But you never loose control of your emotions. Once you make the commitment you stick like glue. You could get jealous and possessive. You tend to be very selfish often regarding yourself as the only human being on the planet. You like being the center of attention. You are very caring, sensitive, private sometimes very passive. Turned on by soft lights, romantic thoughts. When it gets down to the nitty-gritty, you are an expert. You know all the little tricks of the trade, can play any role, or any game, and take your love life very seriously. You don't fool around. You have the patience to wait for the right person to come along. You are very generous giving, often selfless.! You are kind nature sweet, which is found to be attractive ! by many. You are a good friend.

Does your name begin with: T?
You are very sensitive, private sometimes very passive. You like someone who takes the lead. Music, soft lights romantic thoughts turn you on. You fantasize tend to fall in out of love soon. When in love you are romantic, idealistic, mushy extremely. You enjoy having your senses your feelings stimulated, titillated teased. You are a great flirt. You can make your relationships fit your dreams, all in your own head. Once you put your mind to something you manage to stand by it and see your dreams through. You aren't very good at expressing your feelings. You like things your own way. You do not like change; you like to hold on to things. This may not always! be good because if given an opportunity things may develop into great things. You work your way to the top. Attention must be given to what others say because even though you don't want to hear it their advice may turn out to save your life.

Does your name begin with: U?
You are enthusiastic at you're happiest when in love. When not in love you're in love with love and always looking for someone to adore. You see romance as challenge. You are a roamer needs adventure, excitement, freedom. You enjoy giving gifts looking good. You are willing to put others feelings above yours.

Does your name begin with: V?
You are individualistic you need freedom, space excitement. You wait till you know someone well before committing yourself. Knowing someone means psyching her/him out. You feel a need to get into his/her head to see what makes him tick. You are attracted to eccentric types. You believe that age is no barrier. You are good at responding to danger, fear suspense.

Does your name begin with: W?
You are very proud, determined refuses to take no for an answer when it come to love. Your ego is at stake all the time. You are romantic, idealistic, often in love with love itself, not seeing your partner for who she or he really is. You feel deeply about love tends to throw all of &your self into a relationship. Nothing is too good for your lover. You like playing love games.

Does your name begin with: X?
You need constant stimulation because you get bored quickly. You can handle more than 1 relationship at a time with ease. You can't shut off your mind. You can do 2 things at once. You are very talented.

Does your name begin with: Y?
You are sensual very independent. If you can't have it your way, you will forget the whole thing. You want to control your relationships, which doesn't work out too well. You respond to physical stimulation. However if you can make money you will give up the pleasures of the flesh for the moment. You have a need to prove yourself the best. You want feedback on your performance. You are open, stimulating romantic.

Does your name begin with: Z?
You are very romantic but show feels that to love means to suffer. You wind up serving your mate attracting people who have unusual trouble. You see yourself as a lover's savior.

Saya ingin berkongsi satu artikel mengenai kajian ketagihan internet yang saya baca di blog Ukiran Cinta.

2. Merasa gelisah atau tidak ketentuan sekiranya tidak dapat menggunakan internet.

3. Sukar untuk berhenti dari menggunakan internet, walaupun telah menggunakannya untuk tempoh masa yang begitu lama.

4. Mengalami gangguan psikomotor. Misalnya bahagian jari yang sering mengajuk perbuatan menekan papan kekunci atau tetikus.

Kesan dari ketagihan internet ini ialah mengalami tekanan perasaan serta kemurungan dan suka menyendiri disebabkan jarang bercampur gaul dengan masyarakat dan rakan-rakan. Menurut Dr. Kimberly Young, (pakar psikologi) menerusi kajiannya mendapati bahawa pesakit ini biasanya mengalami masalah yang sama seperti mereka yang mengalami penyakit ketagihan arak. Contohnya seperti masalah keruntuhan rumahtangga, kemerosotan pelajaran dan juga masalah sosial.

Adakah anda juga sedang "ketagih internet" macam orang di dalam gambar tu? :)